Resisting Distracting Opposition and Recognizing Divine Opportunities in Av

As we come to the end of the Dire Straits—culminating in the 9th of Av (Tisha B’Av) on August 3rd—most find themselves standing at a spiritual threshold. This moment isn’t just about commemorating ancient tragedies; it’s a divine invitation to ask, “What’s next?”

The Hebrew month of Av, which began at sundown on July 25 and runs through August 23rd, is known for its duality: profound sorrow and powerful redemption. It’s a time to transition from mourning to hope, prepare your heart, and align yourself for what lies ahead—both the opposition and the opportunity.

Understanding the Weight of the 9th of Av

Tisha B’Av is one of the most solemn days, marking multiple historical calamities:

• The evil report of the 10 spies (Numbers 13–14)
• The destruction of the First and Second Temples
• The expulsion of Jews from England, France, and Spain, and the beginning of WWI
• The deportation of Jews from the Warsaw Ghetto to Treblinka
• The expulsion from Gush Katif in Gaza in 2005

In 2005, Christie and I stood on the Gaza border as Israeli soldiers were forced to remove Jewish families from their homes. It was one of the most painful and prophetic moments we’ve ever experienced. Just weeks after this forced disengagement—under pressure from the U.S.—Hurricane Katrina struck America’s Gulf Coast. Coincidence or consequence?

These incidents aren’t simply about tragedy. It’s a warning to be sober and vigilant (1 Peter 5:8). 

Duality in Av: Tension and Triumph

Av’s dual nature teaches us this vital principle: Opposition can either paralyze us or propel us into purpose.

We’re called to watch and pray—to be like spiritual watchmen, sharpening our discernment, resisting distraction, and refusing impulsive reactions. This is a period to intentionally avoid rash decisions driven by anger or fear. We understand that adversity is part of the journey, but so is God’s mercy and breakthrough.

Elul is coming. The King is in the field. But how we posture ourselves in Av determines how we will enter Elul.

The Father’s Heart: Correction Is Not Rejection

One of the most healing aspects of Av is understanding the Father’s heart toward you, that there is love in correction:

“For whom the Lord loves He corrects, even as a father corrects the son in whom he delights.”
— Proverbs 3:12 (AMP)

In Av, break free from the lie that correction equals rejection. Many of us carry wounds from parental or spiritual authority figures who abused correction. Choose to forgive them. Sever the soul ties. Understand that godly correction is an act of love, not condemnation.

Let the Holy Spirit form a heart within you that is:

• Teachable
• Humble
• Correctable
• Flexible in the hands of a faithful Father

Redemption in the Midst of Ruin

There’s a mystery woven into the Hebrew calendar: Av connects prophetically to Nisan, the month of redemption. Out of destruction can come deliverance—but only if we stay aligned. The name “Av” means “Father,” reminding us that even in the midst of judgment, our Father intercedes in mercy.

Let’s prepare not just by looking back at what was lost—but by preparing for the redemption that lies ahead.

Staying Spiritually Aligned in Av

1. Refuse to react out of emotion: Discipline your soul to bless the Lord (Psalm 103). 
2. Stay on God’s path for you: Expect resistance. If you’re being opposed, you may be on the right path (Philippians 1:28).
3. Remain flexible to God’s timing: Whether you feel accelerated or delayed, declare:
   “Lord, I trust You. You are not slow in keeping Your promises.”
4. Strengthen your watchman anointing: Watch, listen, and wait. Protect your spiritual ears from deception (Isaiah 62:6).
5. Practice the presence of God: Set aside time to hear Him. His direction is key for the roads you’ve never walked before.

Trusting and Aligning with the Father’s Heart 

In Av, you can walk confidently knowing that every moment of resistance, every moment of opposition, is actually a moment of opportunity in the spirit. It’s an opportunity to see the bigger picture, to stand in alignment with God’s heart for yourself, others, and the nations—especially His chosen nation of Israel. 

Don’t let the pressure of the season push you off the path of your purpose or confuse God’s correction with condemnation. 

“I am the redeemed of the Lord—and I will say so. I will trust Him through delays and accelerations. I will not be moved. I will not be shaken. I will be more than a conqueror through Christ who gives me strength.”